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A smarter way to pick the right college

September 25, 2025

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  • In "A smarter way to pick the right college" from Life Kit, higher education journalist Jeffrey Selingo argues that students and parents should look beyond the prestige of top-ranked universities and focus on factors like supportive first-year experiences, opportunities for connection with faculty and peers, and real job experience to find a college that is a better fit. 
  • The college admissions process has become overly complex and application numbers have surged due to a focus on prestige and rankings, leading to increased student anxiety and a distorted perception of college value. 
  • While a college degree still offers significant advantages in terms of flexibility and mobility, the narrative that college is not worth the cost or effort is impacting enrollment, and families are increasingly scrutinizing the financial and practical value of higher education beyond just name recognition. 

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The Brand of College
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  • Key Takeaway: Colleges function as powerful brands, influencing student aspirations through lifelong exposure to their imagery and associations.
  • Summary: Well-known colleges and universities operate as significant brands, similar to major corporations, shaping teenagers’ perceptions through constant exposure in media and popular culture. This pervasive branding can lead to aspirational goals, where students feel immense pressure to attend these prestigious institutions, fearing negative life consequences if they don’t.
Prestige vs. Fit
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  • Key Takeaway: Focusing solely on a college’s prestige can lead to a poor fit, as demonstrated by a student’s negative experience at Columbia University despite initial excitement.
  • Summary: Higher education journalist Jeffrey Selingo highlights that prestige alone does not guarantee a good college experience. A student admitted to Columbia University found it difficult to access desired classes and research opportunities, and found the core curriculum a ‘slog,’ ultimately leading to a desire to transfer to the University of Minnesota for a better fit.
The Admissions Frenzy
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  • Key Takeaway: The college admissions process has become excessively competitive, with students applying to far more schools than in previous generations due to a pervasive fear of rejection and a focus on prestige.
  • Summary: The number of applications to selective colleges has nearly tripled in the last 20 years, driven by student anxiety and a focus on prestige. This trend is exacerbated by the ease of applying through platforms like the Common App and the emphasis on rankings, which incentivize colleges to manage their ‘yield’ rate. This creates a cycle where more applications lead to more perceived selectivity, further fueling the frenzy.
Shared Blame for Frenzy
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  • Key Takeaway: Multiple factors, including college rankings, the Common App, and colleges’ own admissions strategies, contribute to the overwhelming college application process.
  • Summary: The intense college admissions landscape is a collective issue, with rankings driving a pursuit of prestige and yield. The Common App simplifies the application process, while colleges’ use of early action and early decision encourages earlier commitments. Ultimately, families also play a role by not setting boundaries and encouraging a broader perspective on what constitutes a good college.
Finding a Supportive Start
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  • Key Takeaway: Colleges that offer robust first-year experiences with built-in support structures are crucial for student success, as many students struggle to transition to college life.
  • Summary: A significant percentage of students do not make it to their sophomore year or graduate within four years, highlighting the need for colleges with strong support systems. These ‘first-year experiences’ often include access to professors, small cohort classes, and extended orientation programs designed to scaffold students as they adapt to college, a need amplified post-COVID.
The Importance of Connections
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  • Key Takeaway: Finding a college where connections are easy, including accessible professors and opportunities for mentorship, is vital for student belonging and academic success.
  • Summary: Belonging in college is directly linked to completion rates, making it essential to find institutions where students can easily form connections. This involves seeking out professors who are available during office hours and willing to mentor students, as well as observing how students interact with each other and faculty on campus. Mentorship is a critical factor for graduating, regardless of a student’s background.
Financial Fit Matters
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  • Key Takeaway: Families are increasingly hesitant to overextend financially for college, prioritizing financial fit alongside academic and social considerations, especially when discounts are available.
  • Summary: While academic and social fit are important, the financial aspect of college is a growing concern for families. Parents are less willing to stretch their budgets significantly for college than in the past, particularly for institutions without substantial name recognition. Many prestigious colleges offer generous financial aid, often discounting their sticker price by up to 50%, making the perceived value of a higher price tag questionable.
Shifting Perceptions of Value
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  • Key Takeaway: A narrowing definition of prestige, the need for financial flexibility for other life events, and concerns about future job prospects are leading families to re-evaluate their willingness to pay for college.
  • Summary: Families are reassessing college spending due to a limited view of prestige, the need to fund other responsibilities like aging parents or multiple children, and the desire to retain funds for future support, such as graduate school or job transitions. The rise of AI and economic disruption also fuels concerns about career readiness, prompting a more cautious approach to college investment.
College Degree’s Enduring Value
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  • Key Takeaway: Despite criticisms and changing job market narratives, a college degree remains a significant asset for providing flexibility, mobility, and career advancement opportunities.
  • Summary: While some narratives question the necessity of a college degree, employers still largely seek degree holders, and many states are removing degree requirements for public sector jobs, though hiring practices often remain unchanged. A college degree provides essential flexibility and mobility, enabling individuals to move up in their careers in ways that are less accessible without one. The narrative that college is not valuable or will not lead to employment is impacting enrollment rates.
Finding the Right Fit
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  • Key Takeaway: Identifying a ‘dream school’ involves looking beyond rankings to find institutions offering supportive environments, strong connections, real job experience, and financial viability.
  • Summary: To find the right college fit, families should consider institutions that provide a supportive start with scaffolding for the first and second years, facilitate easy connections and mentorship, offer robust co-op or internship opportunities, and possess the financial resources to invest in students. This approach encourages looking beyond the top-ranked schools to find a place where students can truly thrive.
Defining the Dream School
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  • Key Takeaway: A ‘dream school’ should be redefined as a place where a student will thrive, build connections, and gain job experience, rather than a singular prestigious institution.
  • Summary: The concept of a ‘dream school’ needs to broaden beyond a single, highly-ranked institution. Parents and students should be encouraged to consider a wider range of colleges that offer a better fit, providing opportunities for personal growth, meaningful connections, and practical experience. This perspective acknowledges that hundreds of good schools exist beyond the commonly discussed top 20-30.