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It's OK to run slow AF

November 27, 2025

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  • To combat the inner critic when starting to run, give that voice a name and persona so you can consciously dismiss its unhelpful commentary. 
  • New runners should prioritize getting properly fitted running shoes via a gait analysis at a specialty store and avoid cotton clothing/socks to prevent painful chafing and blisters. 
  • Beginner running workouts should follow a pattern of walking for five minutes to warm up, then alternating 15 seconds of conversational-paced running with one minute of walking for a total of 30 minutes, repeated three days a week. 

Segments

Introduction to Running Motivation
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(00:00:36)
  • Key Takeaway: Running is accessible and beneficial, even outside of competitive events like turkey trots.
  • Summary: The host introduces the episode by mentioning Thanksgiving turkey trots and encourages listeners to start running at normal hours, highlighting its cardiovascular benefits and accessibility (no equipment needed).
Defining Sexy Pace
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(00:01:41)
  • Key Takeaway: Most runs should be at a ‘sexy pace,’ which is a conversational speed.
  • Summary: Martinez Evans introduces the concept of ‘sexy pace’ as the ideal, conversational speed for running, contrasting it with the tendency for people to run too fast.
Overcoming the Inner Critic
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(00:04:20)
  • Key Takeaway: Name your inner critic to gain distance and dismiss its negative input.
  • Summary: Evans discusses how to manage the inner critic by giving it a persona (like his ‘Otis’) so that its discouraging voice can be consciously rejected.
Running Affirmations and Mantras
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(00:06:06)
  • Key Takeaway: Mantras like ’no struggle, no progress’ help maintain rhythm and forward momentum during hard parts of a run.
  • Summary: The discussion covers helpful running affirmations, including the Frederick Douglass quote ’no struggle, no progress,’ and when to use them (during the initial difficult phase of a run).
Essential Running Gear
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(00:07:29)
  • Key Takeaway: Invest in proper running shoes via a specialty store analysis; avoid cotton clothing to prevent chafing.
  • Summary: Advice on gear focuses on getting a shoe fit/gate analysis, using existing shorts/t-shirts, and strictly avoiding cotton due to its tendency to cause blisters and chafing.
First Run Protocol
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(00:10:24)
  • Key Takeaway: Start with a 30-minute cycle of 15 seconds running followed by 1 minute walking, repeated three days a week.
  • Summary: The initial workout involves a 5-minute walk warm-up, followed by 30 minutes of alternating 15 seconds of running (conversational pace) and 1 minute of walking, concluding with a cool-down walk.
Identifying Pain vs. Soreness
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(00:13:44)
  • Key Takeaway: Sharp or specific pain indicates stopping the run; general muscle stiffness after warming up is usually okay.
  • Summary: The discussion differentiates between acceptable muscle soreness/stiffness and sharp, localized pain, which signals that the run should be stopped.
Running Form Fundamentals
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(00:16:00)
  • Key Takeaway: Maintain loosely closed fists, look at the horizon 6-8 feet ahead, and practice deep belly breathing.
  • Summary: Evans covers form basics: relaxed hands, looking forward instead of down, and ensuring breaths engage the diaphragm (belly breathing).
Importance of Cross-Training
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(00:17:48)
  • Key Takeaway: On non-running days, cross-train by stretching and strengthening weak areas, especially the glutes (to combat ‘gluteoamnesia’).
  • Summary: Cross-training is essential for strengthening muscles like the glutes (using exercises like bridges and squats) to prevent imbalances and injury when running.
Evaluating Running Progress
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(00:22:44)
  • Key Takeaway: After a month, assess if the activity is getting easier or if you still hate it to decide whether to stick with running or try another cardio form.
  • Summary: Listeners should check in after a month to see if the workouts feel less taxing. If running remains miserable, they should consider alternatives like cycling or paddleboarding.
Recap and Affirmations
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(00:25:24)
  • Key Takeaway: Key advice includes naming your critic, getting proper shoes, using the 15-second run/1-minute walk method, and prioritizing cross-training.
  • Summary: The host summarizes the episode’s main points, followed by Martinez Evans sharing several favorite running affirmations.