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A Queenie in Both Hands: Friday, January 16th, 2026

January 16, 2026

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  • The hosts clarified that their previous comments about Mel Robbins were not intended as shade toward the 'Good Guys' podcast, but rather a general observation about podcast success. 
  • The hosts are looking forward to playing Mahjong, though one host is nervous about playing a different regional variation (without futures). 
  • Jennifer Lawrence believes she was not cast as Sharon Tate in *Once Upon a Time in Hollywood* because online trolls deemed her 'not pretty enough,' a claim the hosts found questionable. 
  • Jennifer Lawrence believes online criticism regarding her looks dissuaded Quentin Tarantino from casting her as Sharon Tate in "Once Upon a Time in Hollywood," though the hosts doubt Tarantino would be swayed by internet comments. 
  • Jennifer Lawrence turned down the role of Daisy in Quentin Tarantino's film "The Hateful Eight," which ultimately went to Jennifer Jason Leigh, a decision she now regrets. 
  • The hosts awarded Pitbull and Sydney Sweeney as their respective Queenies of the Week, while Kiefer Sutherland received the Weenie of the Week award for assaulting his Uber driver. 

Segments

2016 Nostalgia and Mustaches
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  • Key Takeaway: The hosts recall the widespread trend of people wearing fake mustaches around 2016.
  • Summary: The hosts reminisced about the year 2016, specifically noting the popularity of wearing fake mustaches. One host claimed this was a core cultural tenant of that year. The other host admitted they did not participate in the mustache trend.
Mel Robbins Podcast Clarification
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  • Key Takeaway: The hosts clarified that their previous comments about Mel Robbins appearing on small shows were not directed at the ‘Good Guys’ podcast.
  • Summary: The hosts confirmed they saw comments suggesting they were throwing shade at Mel Robbins for appearing on the ‘Good Guys’ podcast. They stated they were not referring to ‘Good Guys’ specifically, acknowledging that show’s success. They affirmed they have no issue with Mel Robbins and respect her positive purpose.
Let Them vs. F Them Theory
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(00:02:08)
  • Key Takeaway: One host subscribes more to the ‘F them theory’ than the ’let them theory’ when dealing with harmful personal relationships.
  • Summary: The hosts debated the ’let them theory,’ suggesting it is flawed when people pose a harm or risk to themselves or others. One host prefers the ‘F them theory’ coined by Kelty. The other host leans toward the Mel Robbins philosophy of only changing one’s own reaction to people.
Friday Attire and Mahjong Prep
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  • Key Takeaway: The hosts wore cashmere sweaters and scarves due to the unusually cold weather in Florida and to dress for their evening Mahjong game.
  • Summary: Both hosts wore thick cashmere sweaters because the temperature in Florida dropped into the 40s, prompting one host to enjoy warming up her car. The scarf worn by one host was specifically chosen to enhance her look for the Mahjong party that evening. The host expressed nervousness about playing Mahjong with others who might use different rules, specifically playing without ‘futures.’
New Driving Fear Unlocked
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  • Key Takeaway: A new driving fear was unlocked concerning how to know if a police officer’s flashing lights are intended for your vehicle in a multi-car scenario.
  • Summary: The host witnessed a police officer pull over the car directly in front of her at a stoplight after the light turned green. She worried about how to confirm if the stop was meant for her or if the driver pulled over preemptively. She also reflected on her husband Ben’s defensive tone when pulled over, contrasting it with the required polite disposition.
Ben’s Suspended License Saga
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  • Key Takeaway: Ben was driving with a suspended license for nearly a year because the DMV sent notifications to his old parents’ apartment address.
  • Summary: Ben discovered his license was suspended when attempting to renew it, accumulating 11 points from previous tickets. Because he hadn’t updated his address, the notifications went to his old address. This resulted in him unknowingly driving illegally for about a year.
MLK Day and Short Week Plans
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(00:08:50)
  • Key Takeaway: The upcoming week will be short due to MLK Day, prompting the hosts to plan a Sunday night barbecue/pool party.
  • Summary: The hosts noted that the following week is shorter because they are off on Monday for MLK Day. They decided to make plans for the long weekend, specifically suggesting a Sunday night barbecue at one host’s place, potentially involving the pool as the weather is expected to improve. The host’s husband Ben is currently shopping for kosher ingredients for a recipe.
AI Food Videos and Cooking Skills
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  • Key Takeaway: The hosts are receiving AI-generated food videos where ingredients yell cooking tips, contrasting with one host’s recent success making Ina Garten’s lemon chicken faster now.
  • Summary: One host shared that her Instagram feed is full of AI videos where food ingredients give cooking advice, such as an onion advising against being cooked. This contrasted with the other host’s experience making Ina Garten’s lemon chicken recipe much quicker now that she is more experienced. The hosts agreed one must be kind to their former, less experienced self.
Queenie and Weenie of the Week
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  • Key Takeaway: The hosts decided to focus only on positive ‘Queenies’ this week, with one host sharing two examples related to children’s books.
  • Summary: The hosts opted for a positive ‘Queenie in Both Hands’ segment instead of including a ‘Weenie.’ One host praised the children’s book Giraffes Can’t Dance for its message of individuality, noting it made both her and her husband emotional. Conversely, she criticized Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See? as an overhyped, poorly structured book that would fail in today’s market.
Taylor Farms and Fora Sponsorships
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(00:16:13)
  • Key Takeaway: Taylor Farms chopped salad kits offer convenient, fresh, and varied salad options, while Fora allows travel enthusiasts to become advisors earning commissions.
  • Summary: Taylor Farms provides pre-washed, pre-chopped salad kits in numerous flavors, eliminating the need for extensive preparation. Fora is a modern travel agency enabling passionate planners to earn income by booking travel and unlocking VIP perks for clients. Fora advisors earn money via commission on bookings made through their platform.
Hungry Root Meal Planning Service
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(00:18:55)
  • Key Takeaway: Hungry Root simplifies healthy eating by acting as a personal nutrition coach and shopper, offering personalized recipes and high-quality ingredients.
  • Summary: Hungry Root plans, recommends, and shops for healthy meals tailored to individual tastes and health goals, making eating cleaner simple. The service learns preferences over time and offers over 50,000 recipes weekly, sourcing only high-quality meat and seafood without junk ingredients. Listeners can receive 40% off their first box plus a free item for life using the code ’toast'.
Alix Earle’s New YouTube Series
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  • Key Takeaway: Alix Earle is launching a monthly, high-quality YouTube interview series called ‘Get Real With Me’ under her new entity, Hot Mess Media.
  • Summary: Alix Earle is elevating her GRWM TikToks into a monthly video series filmed in a custom studio designed to feel intimate. The series launches with creator Jake Shane and will stream on YouTube and video podcast platforms. The hosts noted that while the quality is high, a monthly frequency might be slow for her established internet audience, and questioned the longevity of celebrity interview shows.
Harry Styles Disco Album Announcement
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  • Key Takeaway: Harry Styles announced his fourth, disco-themed album, Kiss All the Time, Disco Occasionally, set for release on March 6th, though the cover art was deemed ‘atrocious’ and ‘pee-pee-poo-pooh’ by the hosts.
  • Summary: Harry Styles’ new record is disco-themed, featuring a glittering disco ball concept, which the hosts felt was fitting for his style. The album title, written circularly on the cover, was confusing to read. Despite the bizarre cover art, the hosts believe Harry is incapable of releasing a flop album.
Caitlin Jenner on Kylie and Timothée
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(00:34:58)
  • Key Takeaway: Caitlin Jenner approved of Kylie Jenner’s relationship with Timothée Chalamet, calling him a ‘great kid’ and ‘phenomenal actor’ after seeing his movie Wonka (referred to as Marty Supreme).
  • Summary: Caitlin Jenner told paparazzi she wants her daughter to be happy and praised Chalamet’s acting ability. The hosts speculated Caitlin’s reserved comments might stem from being scared, similar to Donna Kelsey’s demeanor regarding Taylor Swift. Caitlin appears to be embracing her ‘YOLO era’ by engaging in public opportunities like The Today Show.
Ashley Tisdale Mom Group Movie Buzz
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  • Key Takeaway: Movie executives are interested in adapting the drama surrounding Ashley Tisdale’s ’toxic mom group,’ a genre the hosts enjoy, provided it includes sufficient conflict.
  • Summary: The interest in adapting the story follows a pattern seen with Anna Delvey, where a blog post inspires a film. The hosts expressed excitement for a movie about rich mothers fighting, suggesting it needs a murder or a lesbian triangle to meet their preferred cinematic standards. One host shared unverified information suggesting Hillary is not the main antagonist and that another extremely famous person is involved in the group.
Jennifer Lawrence Casting Comments
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(00:41:49)
  • Key Takeaway: Jennifer Lawrence claimed Quentin Tarantino considered her for Once Upon a Time in Hollywood but backed out after online backlash suggested she was ’not pretty enough’ to play Sharon Tate.
  • Summary: Jennifer Lawrence stated she believes online reactions about her looks dissuaded Tarantino from casting her, though she admitted she might have internalized the story over time. The hosts noted that Margot Robbie ultimately got the role and that they had never heard public criticism regarding Lawrence’s beauty. They suggested this might be a ‘figment of her imagination’ or a result of general internet negativity.
Jennifer Lawrence Tarantino Casting
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  • Key Takeaway: Jennifer Lawrence believes online backlash over her looks cost her the Sharon Tate role in “Once Upon a Time in Hollywood.”
  • Summary: Jennifer Lawrence stated Quentin Tarantino considered her for “Once Upon a Time in Hollywood,” but perceived online comments calling her “not pretty enough” for Sharon Tate dissuaded him. The hosts expressed skepticism, suggesting Tarantino likely wouldn’t heed internet opinions, especially given his dedication to casting like Christoph Waltz in “Inglourious Basterds.” Lawrence also mentioned turning down the role of Daisy in “The Hateful Eight,” a decision she now regrets.
Titanic Hypothetical Survival
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  • Key Takeaway: Claudia Oshry believes she would have been invited onto the Titanic in 1912 but would have declined the voyage.
  • Summary: The hosts debated whether they would have boarded the Titanic if alive in 1912, with Claudia Oshry speculating she would have received an invitation from Brian Kelly but ultimately refused the trip. They noted the Titanic was primarily a means of transport rather than purely recreational travel. The conversation briefly touched upon the historical fact that the ship made stops to pick up more passengers en route.
Queenie and Weenie Awards
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  • Key Takeaway: Pitbull earned a Queenie for boosting the host’s mood, while Sydney Sweeney was honored for meeting with hostages.
  • Summary: Claudia Oshry named Pitbull a Queenie for his positive music and upcoming tour with Lil Jon, suggesting he deserves a Super Bowl halftime show. Sydney Sweeney was also named a Queenie for meeting with Israeli hostages Noah and Abhi Natan, demonstrating refreshing fearlessness. Kiefer Sutherland was named Weenie of the Week for assaulting his Uber driver, which the host felt reflected poorly on her advice to use ride-sharing services.
2016 Throwback Trend Joy
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  • Key Takeaway: The 2016 throwback photo trend is providing unexpected joy and a nostalgic look at simpler times for millennials.
  • Summary: Claudia Oshry awarded the 2016 throwback trend a Queenie because it brought unexpected joy and served as a time capsule of simpler times. She particularly enjoyed seeing posts from figures like Amanda Stanton and Jade Roper Tobaire from that era. The trend is noted as one that, despite widespread adoption, the host has not yet tired of scrolling through.
Harry Styles Album Art Critique
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(00:51:47)
  • Key Takeaway: The hosts believe Harry Styles’ recent album presentation is “pee-pee-poo-poo,” but fans ignore it due to liking the artist.
  • Summary: The hosts criticized the design associated with Harry Styles’ new disco-themed album, suggesting it is low quality despite his popularity. They argued that listeners are biased and ignore these shortcomings because they like the artist, urging listeners to confront this bias. The segment concluded with the hosts noting the show was ending for the week, with a Patreon episode scheduled.