The Toast

DJ JuiceBox with Xandra Pohl: Monday, November 3rd, 2025

November 3, 2025

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  • Xandra Pohl started DJing at age 16 after being inspired by seeing female DJ Alison Wonderland perform at Lollapalooza. 
  • Xandra Pohl and Claudia Oshry addressed persistent online rumors regarding Xandra's past relationship drama with Alex and accusations that Xandra does not mix music live. 
  • Xandra Pohl confirmed that she intentionally chose the name 'Xandra' to control her public identity, as her mother disliked the common nickname 'Alex' for her full name, Alexandra. 
  • The hosts discuss the public reaction to Meghan Markle's World Series celebration video with Prince Harry, with one host defending Meghan while criticizing Harry's perceived lack of support. 
  • The conversation shifts to celebrity participation and times in the 2025 New York City Marathon, comparing them against personal benchmarks. 
  • Xandra Pohl promotes her upcoming music release and upcoming shows, while the hosts wrap up the episode of The Toast. 

Segments

Introduction and Xandra Pohl Welcome
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(00:00:03)
  • Key Takeaway: Xandra Pohl’s hairline is frequently complimented online, leading to discussions about its natural appearance.
  • Summary: The episode opens with the hosts welcoming Xandra Pohl, praising her appearance, particularly her ‘straight and full’ hairline. Xandra shared that her mother takes credit for her distinctive hairline, which some online users mistakenly believe is fake. The hosts expressed admiration for Xandra’s career trajectory and recent Sports Illustrated appearance.
Xandra Pohl’s Background and DJ Career
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(00:01:27)
  • Key Takeaway: Xandra Pohl began DJing at age 16 after being inspired by seeing a female DJ at Lollapalooza.
  • Summary: Xandra provided a rundown of her background, noting she is from Cincinnati, Ohio, which surprised the hosts who expected East Coast energy. She started DJing in high school after seeing Alison Wonderland perform at Lollapalooza, realizing that being a female DJ was what she wanted to pursue. She noted that DJing is harder than it looks, requiring focus rather than just partying.
Lip-Syncing Accusations and DJing Realities
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(00:04:00)
  • Key Takeaway: Xandra Pohl frequently faces online accusations, similar to Paris Hilton, that she does not mix her DJ sets live.
  • Summary: Xandra confirmed that she often sees comments accusing her of not mixing live, which she finds annoying, especially as it targets female DJs. Claudia shared her own brief, unsuccessful attempt at DJing after taking lessons at Flash Academy. Xandra mentioned that she recently received comments comparing her to DJ Press Play and Levity after posting a remix.
College Fame and Public Life
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  • Key Takeaway: Xandra’s rise to TikTok fame during her senior year at the University of Miami was a significant cultural moment for many observers.
  • Summary: Xandra described her college experience as regular until her senior year when her TikTok presence exploded, leading to campus recognition. Claudia noted that her older sister, who is 34, was aware of Xandra’s content, indicating the broad reach of her fame. Xandra acknowledged that having public moments documented forces one to grow up quicker and consider repercussions for actions.
Past Relationship Dynamics
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(00:07:02)
  • Key Takeaway: Xandra maintains there is no bad blood between her and Alex, attributing distance to natural post-college life changes, despite fan speculation.
  • Summary: The hosts brought up persistent rumors about bad blood between Xandra and Alex, which Xandra dismissed as normal drifting after graduation. Xandra also addressed her previous long-term relationship, stating she chose not to publicly detail the ‘atrocities’ her ex committed, respecting his request to stay off the internet, even though he is now active on TikTok. She explained that processing trauma personally before addressing it publicly took a long time.
Dating Status and Marathon Talk
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(00:10:13)
  • Key Takeaway: Xandra is currently not dating anyone specifically, prioritizing healing after her past relationship trauma.
  • Summary: Xandra confirmed she is not currently seeing one person specifically, stating she was not having fun dating for a while while dealing with breakup trauma. The conversation briefly shifted to the NYC Marathon, where Xandra mentioned her brother ran, and Claudia shared her own 5K experience.
DJ Aspirations and Music Taste
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(00:15:30)
  • Key Takeaway: Xandra’s dream DJ gig is securing a headline slot at EDC Vegas or Tomorrowland, and she enjoys dance EDM bops.
  • Summary: Xandra revealed her dream gigs include headlining major festivals like EDC Vegas and Tomorrowland, noting security guards sometimes doubt she is the DJ. She admitted to not understanding the term ‘6'7’ (Dictionary.com’s word of the year) and prefers house parties over clubs now that DJing is her profession. Xandra also revealed she sings on her own released tracks, ‘Toast’ and ‘100%,’ which are dance EDM bops.
Halloween Costume Commentary
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(00:20:24)
  • Key Takeaway: Julia Fox’s controversial Halloween costume depicting a bloody Jackie Kennedy Onassis was widely criticized as tasteless, despite her defense as a ‘statement’ on femininity and trauma.
  • Summary: The hosts discussed Julia Fox’s costume, which replicated Jackie Kennedy Onassis’s blood-stained suit immediately following JFK’s assassination. Julia Fox defended the look as a performance protest exposing brutality, but the hosts found it offensive and tasteless. In contrast, Justin and Hailey Bieber’s son Jack’s costume channeling a young Justin Bieber was praised as the best costume of the year.
Sponsor Reads
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(00:21:00)
  • Key Takeaway: Sponsors promoted include Skims sleepwear and bralettes, Factor ready-to-eat meals, Armra Colostrum for immunity, and By Heart infant formula.
  • Summary: The podcast featured several ad reads, highlighting Skims’ Soft Lounge Sleep Set and Fits Everybody bralette for comfort and looking put-together. Factor meals were promoted as a convenient option for busy routines, with a special offer code. Armra Bovine Colostrum was recommended for boosting immunity and metabolism, and By Heart infant formula was praised for its new TSA-friendly Anywhere Pack for traveling parents.
Tate McRae Lip-Sync Controversy
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(00:37:41)
  • Key Takeaway: Tate McRae faced backlash after a video showed her holding a microphone upside down while the track played, but the hosts defended her, noting most pop stars use backtracks due to demanding choreography.
  • Summary: A viral video showed Tate McRae holding a microphone upside down while her track played, leading to lip-syncing allegations. The hosts argued that Tate is an amazing singer who needs supportive elements while dancing, and that most major pop stars utilize backtracks. They noted that one viral clip can unfairly damage a career, even if the artist is talented.
Clearing Up Misinformation
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(00:40:00)
  • Key Takeaway: Xandra Pohl explicitly denied involvement in a past viral rumor involving an untrue, explicit picture, stating she chose not to defend herself publicly for months.
  • Summary: When asked about the biggest lie she heard about herself, Xandra confirmed she was falsely accused regarding a nude picture that was not of her. She explained that she chose not to defend herself publicly for a long time because she didn’t want to engage with something untrue, despite close friends believing the rumor. Xandra stated she learned to rise above negativity and never speak ill of others.
Personal Accountability and Regret
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(00:41:47)
  • Key Takeaway: One speaker recounts feeling obligated to accept blame for others’ actions to avoid seeming like a bad person.
  • Summary: The speaker detailed a situation where they were wrongly implicated in something but chose not to correct the narrative privately. They felt that speaking up would have made them appear malicious, leading them to accept the blame for the situation. This highlights a dynamic where silence is chosen over confrontation to preserve relationships or image.
Merit Beauty Product Endorsement
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(00:42:34)
  • Key Takeaway: Merit Beauty is promoted as a clean, minimalist makeup brand whose products, like the Blush Bomb, are pregnancy-safe and suitable for quick routines.
  • Summary: Merit Beauty offers makeup and skincare formulated with clean ingredients, appealing to those concerned about what they put on their skin, especially during pregnancy. The hosts specifically praise the pocket-sized Blush Bomb for providing a natural glow, and listeners can receive a free signature makeup bag with their first order using the brand’s website.
HBO Max ‘I Love LA’ Promotion
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(00:44:05)
  • Key Takeaway: The new HBO original comedy series ‘I Love LA,’ starring Rachel Sanat, premiered on HBO Max.
  • Summary: Rachel Sanat, known for ‘Bottoms’ and ‘Shiva Baby,’ stars in the new comedy about ambitious friends navigating life in Los Angeles. New episodes of ‘I Love LA’ air Sundays at (10:30) p.m. exclusively on HBO Max, requiring a subscription.
Avara Holiday Fashion Promotion
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(00:44:28)
  • Key Takeaway: Avara’s new holiday collection offers affordable, curated, and exclusive statement pieces designed to help shoppers stand out.
  • Summary: Avara provides festive styles, inclusive sizing, and exclusive designs, making it easy to refresh a wardrobe affordably for the holiday season. Listeners can use the code ’toast’ at shopavara.com for 20% off their first purchase.
Meghan Markle World Series Video Critique
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(00:45:53)
  • Key Takeaway: The hosts analyze a viral video of Meghan Markle celebrating a Dodgers win, noting Prince Harry’s seemingly unenthusiastic reaction and blaming him for past public scrutiny directed at his wife.
  • Summary: The video showed Meghan excitedly celebrating while Prince Harry appeared reserved, leading to speculation about their dynamic, though one host believes Harry is the more problematic figure in their relationship. The host argues Harry failed to protect Meghan from royal scrutiny, citing his failure to educate her on royal protocols. Despite the cringe factor of the post, the host maintains sympathy for Meghan’s position.
Meghan Markle’s Jam PR Gift
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(00:49:44)
  • Key Takeaway: Meghan Markle sent out PR packages including apricot jam, which one host’s husband highly praised despite being instructed not to eat it.
  • Summary: The jam, sent as part of a PR package, was reportedly delicious according to the host’s husband, who has high culinary standards. The host noted that they were supposed to save the royal jam, but it was consumed before they could properly review it.
Celebrity NYC Marathon Results Review
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(00:50:23)
  • Key Takeaway: Several celebrities completed the 2025 New York City Marathon, with times ranging significantly, including Matt James finishing in (3:31:00) and Tyler Cameron in (5:38:00).
  • Summary: The hosts reviewed the marathon times of various reality stars and celebrities, using a friend’s four-hour finish as a benchmark for comparison. Notable fast times included Elon from Love Island (3:20:00) and Ben Gibbard (3:36:00), while some reality stars finished significantly slower.
Reality TV Appearance Potential
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(00:53:35)
  • Key Takeaway: Xandra Pohl is suggested as a potential fit for ‘Summer House’ due to her Hamptons presence and DJ role, though she expressed reservations about living in the shared house.
  • Summary: The hosts believe Xandra’s existing connection to the Hamptons scene and her DJ career align well with the ‘Summer House’ concept. However, Xandra admitted she is too spoiled to live in a house with other people, preferring to maintain her own residence while attending events.
Xandra Pohl Promotion and Show Wrap
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(00:56:08)
  • Key Takeaway: Xandra Pohl announced an upcoming song release and encouraged listeners to follow her music on Spotify and Apple Music under the name Xandra Pohl.
  • Summary: The episode concluded with Xandra promoting her forthcoming music and upcoming shows, spelling out her name (X-A-N-D-R-A-P-O-H-L) for followers. The hosts reminded listeners to subscribe on YouTube and leave a five-star review for The Toast podcast.